• maria ~@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    7 days ago

    yea plz do this for me angel ~ <3

    mhm there you go being so good for me—

    calling someone angel is not something I thought of before. imma remember that one.

    EDIT: also yes crying is an emergency and it should be treated with care. at least check in like “are u okay or need a lil break?” is enough.

    • Vetis@sh.itjust.works
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      7 days ago

      Don’t you guys have safe words for that ? Though it is true some people do become non-verbal, but that should be known.

      • maria ~@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        6 days ago

        hmm yes but sometimes ur like “aaa I’m crying but also I don’t wanna have them stop but also I’d like them to hug me rn but also this doesnt make me wanna say that word, its not that bad”.

    • Mistakes@sopuli.xyzOP
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      7 days ago

      My primary partner cries anytime she properly cums, so I’m not doing all of that. We are communicating and she will absolutely let me know if she needs to stop.

      • velma@sh.itjust.works
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        7 days ago

        It’s all good, I think that message was for the broader audience and not pointed at you :)

          • velma@sh.itjust.works
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            7 days ago

            Tone can be so hard to convey online sometimes! Your partner sounds very lucky and glad to know you both communicate well hehe

      • maria ~@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        7 days ago

        ye this feels reasonable. I guess the crying in my eyes was mostly about stuff where… its not clear. but ye no u seem cool n stuff ~