• Mistakes@sopuli.xyzOP
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      6 days ago

      Oh absolutely. It’s not just that she likes to surrender control, it’s why she likes to surrender control. A high anxiety sub get entirely different treatment than a sub who has extremely high expectations and responsibility at work. Figuring out that mental side of things a few years back was a game changer.