• velma@sh.itjust.works
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    5 days ago

    Putting aside the fact that you are attractive, you’re also totally allowed to do whatever the fuck you want without being accused of doing it to get men’s attention.

    • Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      5 days ago

      Thanks Velma ❤️
      To be honest, me and my bf had a fight. I’m trying to break free now and I really need a break from all attention from men. I might not be into them that much after all…

      • velma@sh.itjust.works
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        5 days ago

        Ooof it’s been rough over there for you, I’m sorry to hear it! Take that break, lean into dating yourself (you know your favorite snacks, shows, snuggles, and allllll that, treat your self like the queen you are, babe), and you do you unapologetically.