• velma@sh.itjust.works
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    5 days ago

    Oh hahaha well. Honestly there aren’t as many DMs sometimes as you’d imagine (as a femme person who has posted nudes before). And posting nudes isn’t the best way to find sincere men in the DMs. Sometimes the attention is kinda nice though, but it’s never been the main motivator for me. Exhibitionism and the thrill of doing something naughty is way more motivating than men being thirsty haha.

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      5 days ago

      Maybe im just to old anymore but i remember back in the day i felt something similar. But im ancient at the ripe old age of 33. Honestly figuring out how to reply to you was not easy, i couldnt help but try to not come off as some creep even though i did check your post for nudes out of curiosity. I failed but whatever. And i saw your other comment and no matter what ill always be an ally!

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        5 days ago

        Hahah I try to keep my nudes separate from my feminist killjoy accounts ;)

        I appreciate that you put some thought into replying to me and I’m sorry that I was a little blunt initially. We’re cool :)

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          5 days ago

          Naw im actually a huge bitchy asshole. I might mean well but i just say some of the stupidest things and i deserve all the criticism i get. But its nice becoming cool with someone out of no where. Everyone likes making new friends.