• Tar_Alcaran@sh.itjust.works
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    4 days ago

    So I decided I would approach girls same as I would a male peer and damn did that work!

    Turns out the big secret to meeting people of the other gender is to focus on the “people” part.

    • shalafi@lemmy.world
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      4 days ago

      Look bud, I was trying to be all wise and longwinded there. I don’t need a summation of my bullshit. :)

      But yeah, it was a revelation to me at 16-17. Before that I was the guy in Catch 22 that treated women as angels walking the Earth and was utterly tongue tied before them. Incels apparently didn’t get the memo.