• Impleader@lemmy.world
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    By that logic, isn’t it just as problematic when both parties are 40 but there’s a significant salary imbalance between them? Even more so when the lower-earning partner has something else to keep them stuck, like their own dependent children.

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      Yes it can be predatory people that age don’t go for other 40 year olds, they go for the younglings.

      When the person with money is old,fragile and mentally declining a young person could also be a predator.

      Mentally challenged people could be in a vulnerable position all of their life.

      Many relationships can be predatory/manipulative/toxic problematic age gap relationships are just very common and obvious. Also if you are 40 dating as young as legally possible you would probably go younger and thats creepy as fuck.

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        When the person with money is old,fragile and mentally declining a young person could also be a predator.

        Basically the definition of a gold-digger - young attractive person marries someone wealthy but frail in the hopes that they die and they get the inheritance.

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          I don’t find the latter case too objectionable as both parties know it’s really a transaction.