To be honest everyone has emotional triggers like this. For example comparing me with my father makes me very angry.
However I kinda think it is a bit wrong to have someone in a very emotional dependant state, which is also not prior discussed as far as I see, perform sexual acts. For me this is a consent Problem.
My interpretation is that the sexual act was already ongoing when the comment was made.
If they were just, I dunno, hanging out on the couch ans went from that, to the comment, to cumming, that would be a little weird, yeah. But I really don’t think that’s the case.
Whether it makes sense to make emotionally sensitive remarks during such acts, I mean, such acts are inherently emotional. And I would assume one has the good sense to know in which ways they can push/explore a little and in which ways they really should not.
I can see the argument, but exploration is part of the journey. I think in this case, intent does matter quite a bit, and it’s clear to me at least that the OP had good intentions.
To be honest everyone has emotional triggers like this. For example comparing me with my father makes me very angry.
However I kinda think it is a bit wrong to have someone in a very emotional dependant state, which is also not prior discussed as far as I see, perform sexual acts. For me this is a consent Problem.
My interpretation is that the sexual act was already ongoing when the comment was made.
If they were just, I dunno, hanging out on the couch ans went from that, to the comment, to cumming, that would be a little weird, yeah. But I really don’t think that’s the case.
Whether it makes sense to make emotionally sensitive remarks during such acts, I mean, such acts are inherently emotional. And I would assume one has the good sense to know in which ways they can push/explore a little and in which ways they really should not.
How do you know it wasn’t discussed beforehand? It’s entirely possible finding triggers like this was explicitly one of the goals of their play.
I can see the argument, but exploration is part of the journey. I think in this case, intent does matter quite a bit, and it’s clear to me at least that the OP had good intentions.