🍹Early to RISA 🧉@sh.itjust.worksM to Greentext@sh.itjust.works · 3 个月前Anon dates a 19 y/osh.itjust.worksimagemessage-square27fedilinkarrow-up15
arrow-up15imageAnon dates a 19 y/osh.itjust.works🍹Early to RISA 🧉@sh.itjust.worksM to Greentext@sh.itjust.works · 3 个月前message-square27fedilink
minus-squaresleen@lemmy.ziplinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·3 个月前Exactly, this “rule” is really just equivalent to other forms of snake oil there is. It is baseless and completely made up.
minus-squareGhostedIC@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1·3 个月前Found Leo’s account. Seriously though why so hostile about this? Of course it’s made up, it’s a general rule of thumb, and it describes whether people are likely to look at a couple and say, “ew”.
minus-squareyogsototh@programming.devlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·3 个月前One day I mentionned this rule while having a dinner with friends. One of them was a woman I met fir the first time. It turned out his husband was way older than this rule allowed when they met. And now that the rule is fine, she didn’t felt bad about her husband. Seriously, I felt so shitty. Let people loves who they love without discrimination as long as this is consensual between adults.
Exactly, this “rule” is really just equivalent to other forms of snake oil there is. It is baseless and completely made up.
Found Leo’s account.
Seriously though why so hostile about this? Of course it’s made up, it’s a general rule of thumb, and it describes whether people are likely to look at a couple and say, “ew”.
One day I mentionned this rule while having a dinner with friends. One of them was a woman I met fir the first time.
It turned out his husband was way older than this rule allowed when they met. And now that the rule is fine, she didn’t felt bad about her husband.
Seriously, I felt so shitty. Let people loves who they love without discrimination as long as this is consensual between adults.