Or torn apart from spaghettification

Shouldn’t happen with supermassive black holes because their event horizon is beyond the spaghettification limit.

That really isn’t a property of black holes but just gravity interactions between two massive objects. If the moon came too close to earth it would break apart due to similar effects of gravity at one side being much higher than on the other.

With objects like stellar mass black holes the effect would just be experiencable at human scales.

Now I’m hungry for spaghetti.