• chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    3 days ago

    can learn how to be rejected without getting violent, or even mildly annoyed, anyone can. The reason people don’t is because they don’t want to

    it’s because they’re pieces of shit and it reflects on their personality, and no one likes people who have a shitty personality

    Rejection makes people feel bad as a rule. That’s not an excuse for treating others badly, and there’s ways to learn to have a healthier mindset, but I think it’s worth mentioning that it’s ok for people to at least feel the way they do and that having the “wrong” emotions in response to things doesn’t make you a bad person. It just means you might have to work harder to make sure to treat others with decency.

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      3 days ago

      Well yeah rejection kinda sucks but you gotta take it in stride. If you get any type of violent response to rejection however I question if you’re actually capable of handling it.