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    I get that it’s hard for you to accept other people’s cultural identities, but that’s no excuse to call it child abuse. The issue here is performing a rather simple procedure without proper training or adherence to basic safety standards.

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      Its a cultural institution to rape children in TERF islander private schools.

      Tell me why this is different, admit you’re a disingenuous lying fuck defending sick shit for made up dogmatic reasons you have no understanding of, or admit you’re a pedophile.

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      Culture does not excuse child abuse. If they truly want to go through with this, let them do so as adults with minds that are fully developed.

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        You see? You don’t even know what the procedure is for, and yet you claim some kind of altruism when advocating against it. You have been misled by right-wing propaganda, meant to discriminate against immigrants. Or, you’re just racist and think those people are barbarians for looking out for their children’s well-being in a way you don’t agree with.

        Either way, you calling it “child abuse”, doesn’t mean it is.

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          The cultural institution of pederasty practiced by the noble terf islander civilizations serves to impart a certain stoicism and strength of character to their future leaders. Its a valid cultural practice, and just because you don’t agree with it doesn’t mean it’s wrong.

          That’s what you sound like.

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          If this were about “looking out for their children’s well-being,” then wouldn’t they follow the suggestions of doctors and specialists in the field of pediatrics?

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            It always amazes me how ignorant western men are about this subject. No wonder you view men that practice it as if they are barbaric or “lesser-than”. That’s how most bigotry works though…through ignorance.

            The foreskin is highly susceptible to infection during early childhood. Especially in regions where cleaning the foreskin is not as easy. It’s a perfect example of how a common sense health measure becomes a cultural tradition.

            I think it’s far more lazy to simply write it off as some kind of barbaric practice, instead of utilizing some critical thinking about why it’s so common.

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              in regions where

              Yeah. I know in the southern hemisphere brushing your teeth can get really difficult too.

              Fucking exoticizing fetishizing bullshit.

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              Lol “western men.” Okay. You couldn’t sound more like an American man right now defending child genital mutilation. In any event, rambling incoherently about how evil western men are to defend child genital mutilation isn’t convincing anybody that your position has any merit, and most people in the developing world would find it weird.

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                  No, no I’m reading this and they just seem disgusted by your stubbornly racist ignorant parody of anticolonialism.

                  You don’t see these people as human in the same way you’re human. You need to other them to apply the logic you’re applying.

                  Even aside from fetishizing and defending a violation of bodily autonomy; that’s sick.

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                  Says the person who labels people white supremacists for not wanting dead kids from unnecessary medical procedures.

                  I’ll avoid taking any life advice from someone such as yourself, thanks.

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                    So, you’d rather “take your advice” from white supremacists, then? They’re the ones who came up with all your talking points. You’re doing a great job of spreading their propaganda.

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          People not from my culture can abuse children.

          They can even, if they’re very very creative/completionist or maybe in a different climate, abuse them in a way the culture I’m from didn’t. Reactionary fetishization of indigeneity is only very slightly better than instinctive condemnation of a thing because it’s unlike you.

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            Protecting your child from potentially painful infections during their early childhood, is not child abuse.

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              Only you’re blowing it out of proportion to support the bullshit cultural agenda you started this stupid debate with. Now you’re switching tracks to make it about health and wellness?

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                As many as 20% of young boys will get an infection due to not being able to properly clean the tip of the penis before the foreskin can be retracted. Boys between the ages of 2 and 5 are at the highest risk of infection.

                It’s always about the health and well-being of young boys. However, the differences in its acceptance are often cultural. Your culture views it as barbaric, and looks down on those that practice it.

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              That seems like it falls into the same category as ‘protecting your children from all the scary shit on the internet’.

              Like, sure, but your action seems awfully severe and like it wouldn’t do that. Like the action and proclaimed goal have never been in the same room.

              Plus modern western conceptions of pain are bullshit and I kind of think it exists purely as an excuse to abusive authority that can only be justified by the fact pain-fear is the dumbest easiest and therefore most-popular-among-authorities method of control, so physical cowardice has become a kind of synonym for loyalty/virtue. But that’s besides the point, I’m sure these infections you’re talking about are real and dangerous and not mostly made up hyperbolizing.

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      If you define your cultural identity by the need to unnecessarily mutilate the genitals of children, then your culture is shit and does not deserve respect or acceptance.

      Take a step back and consider what it is you’re defending here.

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          No. The bigotry would be not applying that logic across the board; doing it ICC style.

          You are engaging in a brand of ‘bebevolent’ fetishization of ‘barbaric’ peoples and othering them, applying different values to them than to yourself. This is bigotry, even if it’s not hateful. Its genuinely disgusting.

          I can imagine someone like you defending some of the things that my culture of origin did to me as a child this same way, and I’m white, so you wouldn’t; you’d apply values to me like I’m an actual person, but imagining someone who did? I’d fucking kill them

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      I get that it’s hard for you to call if for what it is, but it is genital mutilation. There’s zero need for it. They can’t consent to it.

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      The “procedure” you’re referring to is, by definition, genital mutilation. Which is intentionally inflicting trauma on a child. That is child abuse.

      If they were truly able to consent (which is not possible due to power imbalance), then maybe you’d have an argument. Maybe. But the truth is this “procedure” is for the express purpose of forcing puritanical beliefs and lifestyle into another. So, again, its literally child abuse.

      Believing that your religious views override any of this? That’s bigotry.

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        No, buddy…bigotry is applying the most derogatory terms you can think of, to denigrate other people’s cultural practices.

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          I think fetishizing and othering foreign cultures, suggesting they’re incapable of modern hygeine standards, etc,is also pretty fucking bigoted.

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            Oh. Are you saying that 2 year olds in your culture are capable of maintaining “modern hygiene standards”? Is that a measure of how advanced your culture is?

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          Your “cultural practices” ends when it harms another sentient being. Funny how you also want to harm the animals for selfish reasons by pushing misinformation on the plant-based diet to make excuses to eat the flesh and secretions of others.

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            The main purpose of male circumcision is to prevent harm. Funny how you are so passionate about a subject you don’t even understand. You have the whole idea backwards.

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              It seems you’re very uneducated. Genital mutilation is performed in order to mark the child as a member of an insane cult, and hinder masturbation. This is very well documented by cult “scholars”. The “reduce infection” thing is a new excuse made up to fool normal people into tolerating insane child abusing cultists.

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                Sounds like you’re getting your information from an 18th century “race scientist”. Do you also believe that intelligence can be measured by how many ball bearings can fit inside someone’s skull?

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                  Not at all. This is pretty much as official cultist lore as it get. Required reading for those born into the Jewish sect.

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              The motive might be to prevent harm, but motive does not justify actions. Parents literally used to beat children, to make them more obedient and thereby “protecting” them. Some parents today will prevent their child being vaccinated from life threatening diseases, because in their culture vaccines are seen as bad, and their warped view of medicine makes them think they are protecting their children.

              Motive is not justification.

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                Cherry-picking propaganda is a common strategy for anti-vaxxers, as well. The “study” you provided conveniently ignored the most common infection related to having an intact foreskin. The risks are highest among young boys.

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                    Reposting the same article doesn’t add to the conversation…it just reveals that you have nothing more to add. That article focuses on the least common forms of infection relating to the foreskin, while ignoring the most common. It is an intellectually dishonest attempt at invalidating the benefits of circumcision by cherry picking data to suit your narrative.

                    White nationalists have been using these types of studies for years now, in order to turn public opinion against immigrants. It’s wildly disingenuous…but rather effective, as long as you choose not to look any deeper into the subject.

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              Is that why King David ordered all of those foreskins? He was looking out for their genital hygiene?

              Lol ok bud.

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      The culture I’m from is mostly fucked up shit.

      Just because it’s traditional does not mean it isn’t fucked up shit. Could I be wrong because I don’t know the context? Totally! But melanin is just color, not inherent fucking virtue. Don’t fetishize other cultures. They could suck as much as yours.

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        Many cultural traditions have practical origins. In climates where water is scarce, cleaning is often more difficult. And given the high likelihood of early childhood infections relating to the foreskin, in many of those cultures you apparently look down on, it is considered common sense to remove it before it becomes a problem.

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          The foreskin/glans is self cleaning, if it was this big hazard to our health and safety it would not have evolved.

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          many cultural practices have practical origins

          Yeah. I remember some of the ones practiced on me.

          The practical origins were things like control, degradation, fear. Practical purposes are not always valid or good. Some cultures are fucked up and if everything about them burned it would be an acceptable sacrifice for the amount of bullshit we’re getting rid of.

          early childhood infections

          Okay. But Europe and Asia don’t do this, don’t have a long tradition of this. Do surrounding cultural groups?

          What infections? Infections are well within the realm of academia, we study the shit out of infections, and with cis dudes doing most of the science finding, I think dick infections their causes and their remedies is something I would expect a flood of academic material on.

          look down on

          I don’t assume they’re less than half as depraved tyrannical and shitty as the dumpster fire I fell out of. Sometimes I’m surprised, sometimes I’m not.

          common sense

          Okay but is it? A few of the women in my family, extremely high genetic cancer risk, removed a breast at the drop of a hat, like first hint radical mastectomy being planned instead of any tests, no attempt to save anything. I, not being an insane reactionary defined by a childish trauma response and kind of liking my breasts¹ might take a more measured approach. I can’t help but think these kids, these literal children, are not sufficiently informed for these decisions to be made with the amount of cultural inertia behind them.

          ¹and having anything to lose

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      It is child abuse. You only do it because it’s always been done before. That’s what cultural means. You have No reason, other than, we’ve always done it, so we can never rethink it. That’s what you’re saying. Never question the reason. Don’t think about if it’s right or wrong, it’s “cultural” therefore we just do it blindly without questioning. And you, the person acting blindly, following cruel practices, just because they’ve always been done, thinks you’re in the right, and everyone who can think for themselves and question things, is just wrong. You know that’s delusional, right.

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        The term “cultural” has a lot of meanings that have nothing to do with your narrow definition.

        And the “reason” for male circumcision is mostly to prevent early childhood infections. It’s like any other decision that parents make for the health and wellbeing of their children. Waiting until the child is “old enough to decide for themselves”, does nothing to protect your child from potential harm.