• OneStepAhead@lemmynsfw.com
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    3 days ago

    Sounds like you want to plan yours out then. If you do so at your own home, we’ve solved most of your hurdles here!

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      3 days ago

      I mean, I would consider going to (or organizing) a planned sex party or something like that, but the problem for me here is mostly that it’s just bukkake.

      If the uh, the set of activities were a bit more diverse, or interesting, maybe me sitting around and not doing any work, like a lipstick party… or any number of things that actually require, or are considerably more enjoyable with another person or multiple people…

      That’d be more appealing.

      That, and, frankly, I kind of just find the idea of a bukkake scene inherently demeaning to women… or I gueas just any uh, subject, regardless of sex/gender.

      Sure, probably some ladies are into that, some guys are into that, etc.

      Just gives me bad vibes, don’t like the idea of treating someone’s face as a collective group cum dumpster, even if its consensual, just feels gross to me.

      Further, you’d need to vet the participants, screen/background check them generally, also screen for STIs/STDs, etc.