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Cake day: April 10th, 2025

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  • … I am a man and I have successfully done this more than once.

    Not like, out of the blue, first date hookup kind of thing. More like… we’ve at least been dating for a few weeks, more like months usually, kind of thing.

    Sometimes, it ends up with just comforting, no sexy time, just … more or less bonding time.

    But, sometimes, it does end up with sexy time.

    If your goal is relating to the other person, growing a relationship with them, not just sex with them… it doesn’t matter.

    Because your tomorrow will include that person.






  • Kind of yes, but actually no.

    We just see that debt now, its explicit.

    EA … was subject to a leveraged buy out, that they sought out. They did this… because they needed cash, now.

    What that means is that their internal financials were an absolute shit show… that they had, up untill that point, basically just legally lied about, hid, downplayed.

    They fluffed up their balances and returns and cashflows in ways that are legal to do, but if you actually do due dilligence, you could read the writing on the wall.

    Its basically the same as any other US company that got bought out / sold itself to private equity in the last 10 or 15 years.

    Difference is, EA is so huge, it had to be bought out by essentially a sovereign wealth fund.












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    5 days ago

    If you want to bulk up a bit more, I suspect you’re already good at jogging. Do that a bit more regularly, and then also, pushups and crunches and squats, basically.

    I’m sure an actual body builder type person or comm could give you more detailed advice, but broadly… if you want more pecs, use em more often lol, pushups with proper form, or other excercizes that target them. Pullups for traps and delts, I think?



  • In fairness to yourself, Venus has long been known, by many human societies and cultures, as something approximating ‘the morning star’.

    Your experience of being confused, or perhaps awestruck by it is thus… exceedingly human.

    Take it all in.

    The beauty, the colors, what the wind and rain and sun feel like on your skin, the cries of the birds and cicadas.

    …We are from this ‘outside’. It is where our father’s fathers and mother’s mothers all grew up. Yes, we invented cvilization to shelter us from its cruelties… but it is also very beautiful and therapeutic, in ways we still cannot simulate with our fancy tools and toys.

    Here.

    Someone who put it into a much more beautiful prose than I can:

    Carl Sagan, The Pale Blue Dot.