Guy probably would not need the gatorade if the woman was Amazon riding him or something, and doing all the actual physical work of fucking.

Gal would then probably need the gatorade.

Yeah, men have a refractory period, women essentially do not, can’t really fundamentally change that, though guys can do kegels and such to last longer/maintain erection/do their own orgasm control.

Guys also can get off 7 to 10 times in a row.

It’d just take longer, due to the refractory period, and would also literally require more physical work.

You ever literally fucked for an entire today?

You both need breaks and gatorade, guy and gal.

And the corrollary to that, that even less people want to talk about, is that straight, traditional cis men and women will then mock and shame men who actually do try think outside the box.

So, many men are victims of patriarchy, and many women are perpetrators of patriarchy.

Then you get to the incredibly confusing ‘now’, where many women will claim to be a feminist, yet will also mock and shame men who do not conform to stereotypical cishet male lifestyle/relationship norms.

Actual feminism vs Pop feminism.

Actual feminism seeks to identify and challenge and critique societal gender roles and norms. All societal gender roles and norms.

Pop feminism is basically psuedo (meaning ‘impostor’ or ‘fake’) feminism, that pretty much just boils down to misandry, using a set of buzzwords and terms basically bastardized from actual feminism.

Well see thats the thing.

I am autistic.

Autistic people tend to only info dump when its either a very low stakes, close to anonymous environment… or, when they actually really really trust or admire someone. In the latter case, the infodumping itself is a sign that they basically like you, are comfortable with you.

To me, normies that peacock most or all of their personality… they just think their masks are themselves. They seem to barely even be aware of what they are doing.

Whats actually happening is that really, only the mask actually exists.

Theres not very much underneath, beyond basically the mindset of an immature child/teenager.

And that kind of a person, frankly, is so mentally childlike, that at least to me, I can’t be turned on by or sexually attracted to that… they’re just a child in an adult body. They have too little self awareness and self understanding for me to view them as a responsible adult capable of giving informed consent.

Yeah, by far most women I’ve met are some flavor of sub: brat, princess, service, etc.

Sometimes they’re confused and say they’re something else, spend at least a few weeks to months with them… nope, they’re subs, taking the lead is not something they ever do on their own initiative.

Then, a fair number of woman are genuine doms of some kind, and know it. Occasionally, a few of them will think they are a switch… but again, go for weeks to months, no, they genuienly hate it when they’re not in control.

But a woman switch? Who not only can, but has to switch the power dynamics, who can’t help themselves from doing that, who needs a shifting balance of both?

Yeah, at least in my experience, about as common as a shiny pokemon.

EDIT:

Ok, upon reflection, I have met a second, I think, genuine female switch.

Long story short, masseuse. Masseuse who tried multiple times to give me a ‘happy ending’ that I did not ask for, and that I refused multiple times.

She did seem to genuienly enjoy playing with power dynamics, lets just put it that way. Basically, it got to the point where I actually had to use some measured physical force to stop her from trying to give me a handy… she was very insistent, pouty when I stopped her… but also seemed aroused by being slightly manhandled / me flipping the power dyanamic.

We did not ever actually get to the point of what I would call ‘having sex’, but damn if that wasn’t the kind of mindset and temperment of an actual Switch.

Well I’d prefer to avoid the right wing kinksters, but… fine. Fine, maybe the time has come to finally make a fetlife account… grumble grumble

From what I’ve been able to gather browsing through the not Craiglist personals in my area… most of it seems to be ~45 yo married couples looking for a black unicorn to cuck the husband, or single dudes looking for a transwoman.

Definitely not beating the stereotypes for a pretty solid red area…

Yeah, there does seem to a dynamic like that at play… a bunch of people just say shit about themselves, that they think will make other people like them.

It would be nice if people were actually self aware and honest, with both themselves and others, but apparently that isn’t the meta.

That being said… converting to fundamentalist Christianity?

That’s some legit insanity right there, either that or a person who is deeply insecure and needs validation/meaning imposed on them.

No.

To the best of my knowledge there just isn’t one, in or near my current location, pretty solidly red, conservative area, and back when I was in a bluer area… well frankly back then I didn’t have any need to specifically join a community to try and find people interested in sex.

And/or if said community involves making something approximating a Facebook account, ahahaha fuck no, no I actually value Palantir and the NSA not knowing exactly who I’m fucking and precisely how.

That basically means:

We want someone who is good enough at reverse engineering that they can intentionally design something not reverse engineer-able.

Think of a code breaker being asked to design an unbreakable code, a lock picker asked to design an uncrackable lock.

Its less so that it is or isn’t simple.

A lot of this stuff actually is fairly straightforward.

It is moreso that a lot of people are sophomoric idiots, wise fools, people who don’t realize that they are just around the peak of Mt Dunning Kruger, people who do not realize the extent of what they do not know, what can go wrong.

Either that, or their boss/manager is there.

A lot of these things are obvious and well known to people with moderate levels of actual technical experience… where they actually pop up and become relevant.

Buuuuttttt… not everybody actually experiences, in significant detail, that kind of problem actually popping up, depending on exactly what that prior experience is. Also, the nature of many many game studios is that those people with moderate or more experience are basically treated as contractors and shuffled around, and as a result of this, they just do malicious compliance, they do exactly what they are told.

Because either the managers are egomaniacs, unwilling or unable to actually listen to good advice… and/or the entire team generally develops a toxic positive hugbox culture, that hand waves away valid and legit problems, and calls you an asshole for being persistent about bringing them up.

You can infact raytrace your way into reliable and robust and efficient visibility culling that even works with servers/multiplayer environment. Many succesful games and engines do exactly that.

Its just that you have to be quite clever and nail this down pretty early on in the dev cycle, otherwise, technical debt and timeline problems compound geometrically.

And, what make line on stock market go up != what make line fly around smart and clever in video game.

May your raycasts be compute-inexpensive and functional, and may the dark spirits of vector algebra vex you only minorly, lol.

Sorry, tone is somewhat difficult to convey via text sometimes… I am basically trying to sigh in acknowledgement/agreement with you, lol.

Yeah. Yep. Basically that is what I’m talking about.

Oh dear god do not do the donkey punch, no no no no, noooooo.

I’ve never been asked to, but I knew guys who were, and like… doing the equivalent of that in a competetive martial art would get you heavily penalized, potentially forfeit the match or functionally end your career.

Very not safe.

You really don’t wanna go there, because it involves donkeys, ‘justified’ murder and rape, and pedophilia, as axes.

I am a guy who is a genuine switch.

I’ve only ever met a single genuine female switch, and she was literally a diagnosed nymphomaniac.

I’ve met other guy switches, uncommon but not too uncommon… never ever met another female switch.

Swear to flying spaghetti monster its a curse, its the type O- of sexual styles.

Entirely anecodotal but:

Nearly every woman I’ve met/dated/etc that’s described themself as a pervert or a freak or extremely kinky, that’s a significant element of their personality?

They’re the absolute most boring, plain and lazy in the bedroom, and they also tend to have fairly to extremely serious mental/personality disorders/problems.

Conversely, not all, but far far more of the ones that do not describe themselves as that?

They are actually quite often the most active and creative and willing to try new things, actually reciprocate effort in the bedroom.

Absolutely no clue if this is any kind of representative sample, but it is my experience.

The literal only exception to at least the first half of this was the actually diagnosed nymphomaniac, who was, other than that, a rather meek and reserved person, 95% of the time.

Also I guess for the record, I don’t consider myself ‘perverted’, just sex positive and I guess kinkier than your average bear twink.

I can also promise you that at the end of this, I will have a yacht and bunker, and you will probably have impostor syndrome.

Fair deal eh?

A very well reasoned take that I entirely agree with.

I mean yeah, as a stereotypical semi-insane/delusional solo dev myself… can indie devs make awesome shit?

Absolutely yes.

Can they make something on the scale of production value / plain ole scope of a well paid AA or AAA team?

Fuck no, not unless you count ‘they took 10 actual years to do it all, basically by themselves’, or, basically sold out somewhere before year 10 to get an actual team and resources, for way way waaay above a reasonable price.

But yeah, its basically a tragedy, but a seemingly capitalist realist unavoidable tragedy, at least untill somebody sets up the equivalent of Mondragon as a game dev studio/publisher.

To me, the absolute worst thing is that basically every AA team just does eventually get gobbled up and shit out by a megacorp.

There are very few counterexamples to this, on like a decade timescale… they tend to be the ones that are firecely independent and dedicated to basically one game, that they just keep updating… everybody else that does a seemingly pointless sequel?

Basically, they do that because they could not afford not to, they spent or otherwise lost too much money.

And then even like Unity gets enshittified.

Its a fucking mess, we’ve got MBA brained sharks making all the decisions, and basically, they’re evil idiots who care about nothing other than line go up.