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    a) god is only pretend; and b) you don’t need an imaginary divine punisher to learn that sex is a special thing that should be based on respect and trust-- and while it can be better if love is part of the equation, it doesn’t have to be. let alone some stone age binding ritual of “you’re my property now”

    i agree that some regulation should surround sex, but “no sex unless married” has to be one of the most useless requirements

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      I know that’s how it is for you and your whole so-called civilization but that’s the whole point: you need to deprogram. Hedonistic nihilism is not a solid foundation to build anything that doesn’t turn into a cancer for the rest humanity.

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        premarital sex is not “hedonistic nihilism,” and you have literally nothing to support such a stupid claim, other than maybe your bible, which–i’m sorry-- i fucking reject as a valid authority figure

        if you want to talk about “cancer for humanity,” then we can talk about RELIGION if you prefer

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          You reject everything as an “authority figure”/guidance besides your basest desires and whims, lol, that’s the whole problem. The difference in your society lies simply in opportunity, Billy Bob touches her niece the same way Diddy touched whoever he could, cause you believe in nothing… besides rebels like John Brown and miss Greta who actually believe in something and stand by it.

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            nope. as i said before, sex should be based on respect and trust, and it can be even better with love, but love doesn’t have to be involved for it to be a good experience. the bare minimum is mutual consent.

            your make-believe god butting in and judging people based on whether they’re married or not is straight fucking bullshit.

            i’m not telling you how to live your life. i’m telling you that you don’t get to tell everyone else how to live their life.

            edit: to reply to your ninja edit-- unsurprisingly, you’re trying to equate premarital sex with pedophilia, rape, and every other fucking disgusting thing, which, again, is bullshit. to reiterate, there is literally NOTHING wrong with two consenting adults having sex without being married. your religion has made you hate this thing so much that you have to convince yourself that it’s basically the same as raping children in order to rationalize it.

            what the fuck is wrong with you?

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              I do get to, I’m doing it right now! I’m not forcing you though, nobody can, I can only disapprove of your actions and ideas and remind you to correct them like a good brother.

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                LOL you’ve done nothing but support my position instead of your own. good job “brother”

                tell your wife i’m sorry on behalf of you

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                    you’re just a gullible rube who’s been suckered by whatever cult you’re in to believe in santa claus for grownups. you’ll never grow out of it