ickplant@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world · 1 month agoI would also be confusedlemmy.worldimagemessage-square100fedilinkarrow-up1620
arrow-up1620imageI would also be confusedlemmy.worldickplant@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world · 1 month agomessage-square100fedilink
minus-squarerandint@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyzlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up11·edit-21 month agoWell sometimes some people don’t say directly that they’re mad but say things like “I’m annoyed”
minus-squarearchitect@thelemmy.clublinkfedilinkarrow-up7·1 month agoShe’s annoyed but not mad. She wants to be acknowledged but not fight. It’s not a big deal if you say I’m so sorry about that and move on. Bonus points if you buy a new throw.
minus-squareAgentOrangesicle@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up5·1 month agoShe set clear expectations, so the communication is there. I would set down a plastic mat next time before eating a chocolate bar on the bed.
minus-squareSwedneck@discuss.tchncs.delinkfedilinkarrow-up2·1 month agoor maybe just not take bites directly out of the bar, like fucking gollum
minus-squareTubularTittyFrog@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up4·edit-21 month agoit’s assumed that a woman is always mad at their male partner unless they are actively doing something to make her happy. it’s a relationship trope. and by mad not really angry, so much as dissatisfied.
minus-squareWraithGear@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·1 month agoby the time someone tells you directly they are annoyed by something you have done, it’s gone past the “ i don’t like it but i’m going to just deal with it” stage.
When did she say she was mad??
Well sometimes some people don’t say directly that they’re mad but say things like “I’m annoyed”
She’s annoyed but not mad. She wants to be acknowledged but not fight. It’s not a big deal if you say I’m so sorry about that and move on.
Bonus points if you buy a new throw.
She set clear expectations, so the communication is there. I would set down a plastic mat next time before eating a chocolate bar on the bed.
or maybe just not take bites directly out of the bar, like fucking gollum
it’s assumed that a woman is always mad at their male partner unless they are actively doing something to make her happy.
it’s a relationship trope.
and by mad not really angry, so much as dissatisfied.
by the time someone tells you directly they are annoyed by something you have done, it’s gone past the “ i don’t like it but i’m going to just deal with it” stage.