most of the instances I could find were filled with liberal centrists who call themselves leftist, and hate actual theory-reading commies.
something politically like lemmy.ml or even like lemmygrad would be perfect.
it also shouldn’t be heavily defederated against
OP used Lemmygrad.ml as an example of good politics, so yes, that would include actually existing socialism like Cuba, PRC, DPRK, Laos, Vietnam, former USSR, and countries like Venezuela that are trying to establish socialism.
the deprogram community on lemmygrad is based man, didn’t really interact with the rest of the stuff on the instance though
You should check out the instance itself, the deprogram crowd is pretty new to Lemmygrad, and mostly came after the subreddit ban. Grad has some great posts in other communities!
wanna chat on matrix or something?
Don’t have a matrix, unfortunately… does it have to be private? Lemmy has dm functions, but it’s not private. I can make a Matrix account if necessary though! Just might take a bit.
whatever you want man
Sounds good! Send a message whenever you want!