What the fuck are you talking about? It doesn’t matter if the partner who’s cheating consents to having sex with another person, cheating is by default the violation of an agreement between two people to not fuck other people.
If you’re cool with your partner fucking other people, they’re not cheating on you.
i won’t disagree about it being a violation of a the relationships boundaries.
but if your monogamous partner has consentual sex with someone else, you can get upset, but that doesn’t mean he raped you by having sex without your consent.
What the fuck are you talking about? It doesn’t matter if the partner who’s cheating consents to having sex with another person, cheating is by default the violation of an agreement between two people to not fuck other people.
If you’re cool with your partner fucking other people, they’re not cheating on you.
i won’t disagree about it being a violation of a the relationships boundaries.
but if your monogamous partner has consentual sex with someone else, you can get upset, but that doesn’t mean he raped you by having sex without your consent.
Where are you getting rape from? That’s not even remotely what’s being discussed.
you said that the problem in cheating is that the third party didn’t consent. no one needs a third party consent for sex,
I said no such thing. I said cheating inherently means that the person being cheated on is not ok with it happening.
That has absolutely nothing to do with rape or consenting to sex.
then we’re getting stuck on something we agree on.