• Beth@piefed.social
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    1 day ago

    Hmmm. 2k a month for 700sq ft in a mid area. Not sure how much more I can reduce.

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      1 day ago

      I mean most of my friends who have their own places live in 1 room studio apartments unless they’re living with somebody.

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        21 hours ago

        Yeah I have two kids. They have rooms, I sleep on the floor. Saving up to leave them a house. But the difficulty is getting real dumb.

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          4 hours ago

          Oof, single parenthood is rough. Best wishes and give the 'lil rascals some extra head pats.

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      1 day ago

      have you tried being homeless! imagine the money you can save, not paying rent! you can afford to buy a house in ~20000 years (in the irradiated zones)…

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        It’s not that uncommon. People do that. It’s actually nice to not have “stuff” and reconnect with what it really means to be a self reliant human.

        People live in their cars for awhile. Some people even just get a camping net and sleeping bag and do urban camping.

        Phone, gym membership to shower, and a job. You get a more exciting life experience.

        Some people even prefer it. You don’t have to have the things you’re told you need to be happy. I’ve realized it’s all like shitty drugs anyway. Sober or not so many people are sold escapism like it’s something they are supposed to have. Getting rid of all your stuff can be a blessing, like a detox from all that’s unnecessary. Lifestyles people roped into are marketed to them to make other people rich, not to make your own life better.

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          6 hours ago

          in many parts of the world, it’s a criminal offense not to have a permanent residency with a mailing address registered to you.

          vagrancy laws first existed due to health and wealthfare concerns (albeit this was a lie), but reality is these laws remained.

          as a result many employers, when they do background checks and discover you don’t have one, have to deny you as your a liability.

          if your already employed, if your employer finds out, they can fire you and request compensation, due to violating liability insurance clauses.

          the only way to typically do this successfully is to be self employed or to be a day labourer.

          this is all before the tax issues that apply…


          as some one who spent many months homeless while employed and hiding it from their employer because they didn’t make enough to continue living in a sublease… yeah… most people that prefer that typically are on a ton of copium to avoid society or actively are doing it to skirt legal requirements, to maintain a “lifestyle”…

          that said, all the more power to anyone’s personal choices. I personally hate the system that makes the bare minimum include being homeless.

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              6 hours ago

              in 2026 this is far more difficult. surveillance tech and AI has turned privacy into a premium feature.

              I’ve seen people (nearly) lose their jobs as their employers did silent background checks throughout the year to confirm that they haven’t been convicted of a crime and it come back that Thier registered address didnt belong to them as state police were getting bad information from a databroker. flock was misreading thier plates and thinking they were living 1h away in a parking lot…

              point is, when mistakes like that are made, it shows how hard it is to hide when you are doing something.