• mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works
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    14 hours ago

    I think it’s survivorship bias. People with functional relationships with their parents (myself included) probably don’t feel much need to weigh in.

    People’s families are complicated, and sometimes they need to vent. I (generally) don’t see a problem with giving them space to do so.

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      18 hours ago

      This is the exact reason I’m choosing to just scroll past some of these comments that are missing the bigger picture.

      My own relationship with my family is incredibly complicated. But it’s not really about the family. It’s about the fact that somebody will miss you. But when you’re that deep into depression, it’s really hard to see.