• Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world
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    9 hours ago

    Unless she’s not into it, of course. I had a partner who didn’t want anything to do with her penis. Any sense of pleasure was overridden by the discomfort of her dysphoria.

    As an alternative, she would love to be tied up and given sensory play. Ice cubes, wax, paintbrushes, roller pins, anything to produce a novel sensation would drive her wild. So yeah, your mileage may vary. Either way, bring some pleasure to the trans partner in your life today! :)

    • Echo (they/she)@lemmy.world
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      8 hours ago

      Came here to say this. From the community of trans girls I know, I would guess that at least 25% can’t stand acknowledgement of their bits without dissociating from dysphoria.

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      7 hours ago

      Hey, one overly curious question. Was the sensation play also around the genitals or was it focused on other erogenous zones?