it’s frankly baffling to me that people don’t just throw in a one-sentence explanation of why kids should do things, how tf are they supposed to learn?
Something i’ve come to realize is that an absolutely horrifying amount of my “”“autistic”“” traits were just from not having had the opportunity to learn things, like when i was a kid i literally didn’t understand that i was supposed to speak up if i’m in pain, i just sort of assumed that adults knew and didn’t care.
Just in the past 5-10 years my life has been hugely improved by seeking out knowledge on my own, to the point that i now find informal social stuff so easy that other people are impressed.
It’s why i’m an ardent supporter of the idea that most (or at least many) disabilities are almost entirely a problem with society, not the individual. And the depressing thing is that a lot of the adjustments to be made are really not that significant at all.
it’s frankly baffling to me that people don’t just throw in a one-sentence explanation of why kids should do things, how tf are they supposed to learn?
Something i’ve come to realize is that an absolutely horrifying amount of my “”“autistic”“” traits were just from not having had the opportunity to learn things, like when i was a kid i literally didn’t understand that i was supposed to speak up if i’m in pain, i just sort of assumed that adults knew and didn’t care.
Just in the past 5-10 years my life has been hugely improved by seeking out knowledge on my own, to the point that i now find informal social stuff so easy that other people are impressed.
It’s why i’m an ardent supporter of the idea that most (or at least many) disabilities are almost entirely a problem with society, not the individual. And the depressing thing is that a lot of the adjustments to be made are really not that significant at all.