• TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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    17 hours ago

    some ace folks are just bullshitting about it all in a weird bid to seem cool and edgy and outside the mainstream of boring hetero or homo sex.

    but so are a lot of people in a lot of different ways.

    • Broadly true that people experiment with expressions of self and all that, but giving them the space to discover what and who they truly are breeds such extreme novelty and practical knowledge that it seems almost wholly unnecessary to even consider whether their present state might be their final one.

      Do a few people get overly into understanding their sexuality? Sure. Do most come out the other end appreciably improved and wholler? Yes. Putting them down puts down those who need it the most.

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      12 hours ago

      Idk, maybe they are trying to express something about their internal experience of sex more than their behavior.