(I literally draw porn for a living; I just want an actual punchline ffs)

  • Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org
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    10 hours ago

    Hate fucking is such a contradictory thing that I can’t even fathom how that works.

    Like i hate another individual so much, that i want to do one of the most intimate thing possible with another human while being the most vulnerable i can be? It just doesn’t make any sense.

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      8 hours ago

      Consider the magnitude of the passion instead of the direction, and it starts to make some sense. Not to this level, but consider that allosexuals often get sex very mixed up in the rest of their feelings; sexuality can see that passion and hijack it.

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        8 hours ago

        Yeah I’ve heard that strong emotions can get mixed up, but it’s still unfathomable even if i know the theory behind it.

        Anger and rage are strong emotions, horniness or attraction aren’t, at least for me so it is hard to understand how those can be mixed up.