• Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de
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          9 hours ago

          It’s not like it’s rational, some people’s brains are just hard-wired to find them actively pleasurable to look at.
          At least that’s how it is for me, it’s not just a turn-on, it literally just feels good to see a nice pair, to the point that if they perfectly match the variables in my brain it’s slightly alarming how close it gets to some sort of eldritch cognitohazard.

          But then this applies to almost literally every part of a feminine body, the perfect stomach or neck takes me instantly past the “AWOOOOGA” stage and into drooling vegetable. And all of it on a single person is… so fundamentally delightful that it actually kinda hurts.

          But i’m not sure if this is a universal experience, i get the vibe that i’ve sorta unlocked this by being sufficiently in-tune with or accepting of my desires. In any case it fucking rocks to the degree that the closest thing i have to religion is “everyone deserves to experience this and be in a relationship with a person who triggers it for them”.

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      24 hours ago

      I’m a cis man (and so therefore famously tuned into the preferences of those who aren’t) but, until I read this comment, I thought (almost) everyone did.

      • velma@sh.itjust.works
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        23 hours ago

        I have friends who are straight that can appreciate how clothing fits and such, but boobs don’t do anything sexually for them at all.

        • psycotica0@lemmy.ca
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          18 hours ago

          Sure sure, sexually, but they must admit boobs can be soft for head, and when you shake them they go blublublublublub, no? Surely they must! Maybe they just haven’t shaken them properly…

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            12 hours ago

            I like books well enough. But like you say, one of biggest reasons is soft for head. I mean, couch cuddling, anyone?