artist is PapadamnNoire

  • xkbx@startrek.website
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    7 hours ago

    I used to think I was a hot commodity in the gay community until I realized it was only the ugly old guys hitting on me. Never the hot young ones. Let me tell you, my illusions were shattered. But then I got older and the young hot ones started giving me fuck-me eyes and now my illusions are back again

    • Jo Miran@lemmy.mlM
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      4 hours ago

      I’m 53 and what the kids call omni. Once I hit my forties i was suddenly getting hit on by young CIS men, young CIS women, young trans men and young non-binary folk. Not young trans women though. Only trans women close to my age showed interest, and only if I pursued first.

    • protist@retrofed.com
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      6 hours ago

      As a 40 something bi man who’s single again for the first time in 18 years, I’ve been shocked by the number of twinks who have assertively pursued me. Never in a million years would I have anticipated this

    • SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      7 hours ago

      Yeah, when I started getting visibly grey hair the baby gays started to gravitate towards me. I’m still a little mystified by it TBH, I guess I have the Dommy Mommy thing down pat, lol

      • Xenny@lemmy.world
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        1 hour ago

        The overly empathetic compassionate people pleaser to mommy domme pipeline is real

    • Broadfern@lemmy.world
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      7 hours ago

      Sounds like the whole time you were/are the cup of tea of many people, even if they weren’t yours :)

    • Derpenheim@lemmy.zip
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      Sometimes a fine wine needs a little more time on the shelf. Time to pop that cork baby