• sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      1 day ago

      I can see how it would be very annoying to genuienly be trying to sleep, and someone is playing video games in the very same room.

      Maybe move the console to the living room, use a headset?

      If he’s got too much energy to sleep, and she wants sleep now… this seems mutually agreeable?

      Maybe I’m an odd duck, but what’s always made sense to me, as a very light sleeper, is that a couple would each have their own beds, where they could sleep in the same bed when feeling more cuddly, or seperately when truly exhausted.

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          17 hours ago

          Fair point, lol.

          I suspect that if we ever do start building housing in a way that makes any actual attempt at being affordable, it’ll be floors of studios with small bathrooms, maybe mininfridges, but communal kitches and washing machines on each floor.

          Basically, college dorms, for everyone, forever, lol.

          … beats being homeless!

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        When I was in a good poly relationship we had 2 beds between 3 people, and sometimes I’d want to have one all to myself - I slept sooo well

        So yes, sometimes being able to have your own bed is just what’s needed!