If I get banned for this…I definitely deserve it.
Sorry…it’s not your fault I want bad things to happen to me

    • Azura The Spellkissed@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      11 days ago

      Well go have fun, we don’t need to kink shame. It does feel odd to have a degrading post here, but thank you for putting up content warnings 💜

      As a sincere suggestion: When you’re not horny, it’s probably smart to consider whether you want to contain this kink to the realm of fantasies only, before finding yourself in a situation irl.

      • Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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        It does feel odd to have a degrading post here…

        You’re right…this post was probably a mistake. I’ll probably delete it in a bit. There’s no benefit to having it here, in a safe and friendly community like this. It just ruins the mood. I’m sorry…

        As for your suggestion…
        Thank you, but this is a deeper problem than just a simple kink. I’ve talked about it here, with my bf and with my therapist, I don’t really want to bring it up again. They’re the worst kind of intrusive thoughts.

        Sorry…I’ll delete it

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          nah girl you’re good :)

          I’ve posted similar, albeit non sexual, degrading posts here before. It might be worth asking a mod though if you want to be sure. They’ve always been helpful and nice in the past with me 🙂‍↕️

          as a trade I’ll give you a meme that I didn’t post because I thought it was too much for the sub at the time hehe

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      Oh… I get it girl. Whenever I get bad mood. I do self depreciation, and wish to be harmed (and sadly more…) saddly. B

      Take care, don’t give in.

      • Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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        Whenever I get bad mood. I do self depreciation, and wish to be harmed (and sadly more…)

        Yeah, same 😢
        I even made a (now deleted) post on the OffMyChest community, talking about this exactly, my darkest thoughts…I’m glad it’s gone tho, it was way too messed up.

        I’m not giving in, dw!
        Thank you girlie 🩷