fyi: it’s “drugs”

  • velma@sh.itjust.works
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    The obvious exceptions here being private or secured spaces, including bathrooms, changing rooms/locker rooms, and other public facilities like showers and such. Any medical situation. Also, any nudist areas

    Those are dangerous for women, too.

    You’re missing the point that even naked and doing drugs, no one should be raped. It’s not an invitation.

    The danger comes from others willing to take advantage of someone in that situation, not the situation itself.

    • MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca
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      You and I agree, as far as I can tell.

      I think we both disagree with this statement (which spurred my comment):

      Can a man go to a party naked and drunk without it being unsafe? Mostly yes?

      The answer is no. This isn’t really a gender problem. It’s a rape problem. Just don’t fucking rape people.

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        The answer is no. This isn’t really a gender problem. It’s a rape problem. Just don’t fucking rape people.

        Please stop diminishing the facts about rape.

        You’re getting caught up in the nitty gritty details of the meme scenario without looking at the big picture.

        Yes, men and women are raped. It does no good to pretend like they’re being raped in a vacuum by some faceless entity we can’t identify.

        76% of reported rapes are perpetrated by someone the victim already knew

        When we talk about sexual violence, the focus too often falls on what survivors did, where they were, or whether they reported. But rape happens because someone chooses to violate another person’s consent.

        According to FBI crime data, an average of 107,418 U.S. men are the perpetrators of reported rape each year.

        Each year, an average of 5,510 female perpetrators are reported for rape, according to law enforcement reporting.

        • MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca
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          You seem very much like a troll.

          I don’t see how I’m diminishing the facts about rape at all. It’s a horrendous crime that shouldn’t happen.

          But if you wish to keep babbling to yourself about it for some unknown goal, have at it.

          I think you’ll be hard pressed to find anyone who thinks that rape isn’t a big deal, or anyone who doesn’t think that is a bad thing… Apart from rapists I guess…

          So I’m not sure what you’re trying to prove here? You seem to be lost in the midst of about 13 different conversations about this and I think you’ve lost the plot.

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            I think you’ll be hard pressed to find anyone who thinks that rape isn’t a big deal, or anyone who doesn’t think that is a bad thing… Apart from rapists I guess…

            Keep pretending rape culture doesn’t exist, I guess.