fyi: it’s “drugs”

    • wraekscadu@vargar.org
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      19
      ·
      9 hours ago

      I’m sorry WHAT. Rapists aren’t evil? RAPISTS. People who force someone else to have sex with them without their consent? These people aren’t evil?

      • UltraBlack@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        7
        ·
        9 hours ago

        The one point that I agree with is that a rapist doesn’t necessarily look like one at first glance. So if you think that they would, you’re making yourself more vulnerable.

        • selokichtli@lemmy.ml
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          3
          ·
          8 hours ago

          That’s what I think I wrote. Sadly, someone got too offended and just removed the comment. I will admit I may not be that good at writing in a foreign language, so it could go wrong. But in a thread like this, forcing themselves to remove my opinion? Jeez.

      • selokichtli@lemmy.ml
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        4
        ·
        edit-2
        8 hours ago

        Well, my comment was removed so I couldn’t check my phrasing. I was trying to say they don’t look like “red evil demons”. They of course are evil, but my point was that rapists are people in the world looking like any other person, and it’s useful to know that.

        • FistingEnthusiast@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          3
          ·
          8 hours ago

          Women already do

          Women, especially in 'Murica know

          It’s guys, from the rapists to the cops to the lawyers to the judges who are overwhelmingly men, and overwhelmingly the problem

          • selokichtli@lemmy.ml
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            6
            ·
            7 hours ago

            Sometimes it feels to me like rapists are culturally “cartoonized”. It happens a lot here in Mexico with the “narco” figure. That’s shared with Americans. They put always these Mexican macho cowboy moustached men as the typical druglord, but they are usually just regular guys in their looks. I’m saying a similar thing is socially ingrained with rapists, like these malicious looking weirdos, when they are, in reality, fathers, brothers, excelent students and “exemplary” coworkers, as well as incels, machos and weirdos.

          • selokichtli@lemmy.ml
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            2
            ·
            edit-2
            4 hours ago

            In my app it says “Removido” which is a bad translation for “Removed” but common in bad translations. I tried to edit my message after it appeared as “Removido” because I didn’t want to engage personally with people trying to shame or accuse me of being a rapist or, whatever they are doing (they are blocked now). The option of editing my message was active, so I tried, but my edit didn’t do anything, apparently. Maybe it just registered as edited, but it didn’t change the situation.

            • Echo Dot@feddit.uk
              link
              fedilink
              English
              arrow-up
              3
              ·
              5 hours ago

              Removed means a moderator deleted your comment, but there’s no mod action on your comment. There’s no way for anyone to see what the original comment was now because you edited it. I wish people would just stand by the things they say.

              • selokichtli@lemmy.ml
                link
                fedilink
                English
                arrow-up
                2
                ·
                edit-2
                4 hours ago

                I do not have time or will to know those intricacies. I edit most of my comments because it’s hard to comment in English with a Spanish/English keyboard, but really, I don’t care for these self-righteous, wannabe-superior, angry people.