• Mistakes@sopuli.xyzOP
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      7 days ago

      The “to my face” part of that comment is the only reason I didn’t just dump a bucket of praise and validation on you

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          Edit: comment removed due to worries that I’m being too forward and potentially weird.

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              I’m not going to do the usual shtick of “ask nicely and address me properly” because I already said this earlier. It was something to the tune of:

              I understand wanting something like that and not getting it, my Angel. I know that it feels bad to have a need that deeply recessed go unfulfilled. I see you. Could you be a good girl and do me the favor of being nice to you? You are not only worthy of love, you deserve it. That starts with you. It would mean a lot to me, Angel. Remember: good girls get headpats and all sorts of rewards. Thank you.

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    “Para su seguridad, favor de permanecer sentados con las puertas cerradas, manteniendo su manos, brazos, pies, y piernas adentro mientras el tranvía esta moviendo. Y vigilen a sus niños. Gracias.”

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    yea plz do this for me angel ~ <3

    mhm there you go being so good for me—

    calling someone angel is not something I thought of before. imma remember that one.

    EDIT: also yes crying is an emergency and it should be treated with care. at least check in like “are u okay or need a lil break?” is enough.

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      My primary partner cries anytime she properly cums, so I’m not doing all of that. We are communicating and she will absolutely let me know if she needs to stop.

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        It’s all good, I think that message was for the broader audience and not pointed at you :)

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            Tone can be so hard to convey online sometimes! Your partner sounds very lucky and glad to know you both communicate well hehe

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        ye this feels reasonable. I guess the crying in my eyes was mostly about stuff where… its not clear. but ye no u seem cool n stuff ~

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      Don’t you guys have safe words for that ? Though it is true some people do become non-verbal, but that should be known.

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        hmm yes but sometimes ur like “aaa I’m crying but also I don’t wanna have them stop but also I’d like them to hug me rn but also this doesnt make me wanna say that word, its not that bad”.