Good looking out. I think the distinction that can be made here (that I believe you identified) is that I was putting this on myself and not bearing having it put upon me.

to me the joke flowed better when mimicking the pattern of the meme vs trying to be accurate to reality though. I also wouldn’t randomly try to finger a girl in my past life!

edit: on further reflection I think you were probably right to call this out, even though I was being toxic to myself any trans folks reading it, including me, can only benefit from reaffirming that who we are is intrinsic and not a surface level transformation so please take my ‘good looking out’ from the heart 💕 sorry for being prickly