Damn. That’s true, especially considering I was really considering just ending it last October, waiting for HRT for so damn long.
I guess…I am doing better. We lived girlie. And we even have tits now 💜

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      Most trans people don’t feel like their gender changed, only their presentation and legal status did… This is an interesting perspective and you may consider yourself genderfluid.

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        Oh this is called making a joke, an attempt at humor not a request for diagnosis but thank you for supporting trans folks

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          Well, since most people I know IRL don’t know that “she used to be a man” is considered inaccurate or hurtful by many, I try to spread awareness… I was pretty sure you were aware but I can’t detect jokes very well so I figured it’s best to just make you feel affirmed and inform others.

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            Good looking out. I think the distinction that can be made here (that I believe you identified) is that I was putting this on myself and not bearing having it put upon me.

            to me the joke flowed better when mimicking the pattern of the meme vs trying to be accurate to reality though. I also wouldn’t randomly try to finger a girl in my past life!

            edit: on further reflection I think you were probably right to call this out, even though I was being toxic to myself any trans folks reading it, including me, can only benefit from reaffirming that who we are is intrinsic and not a surface level transformation so please take my ‘good looking out’ from the heart 💕 sorry for being prickly

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    The woman I was last October would wonder why I haven’t continued my comic, ah shit, we’re still fucking tired all the time, aren’t we? Oh it’s actually slightly worse? Yay …

    No, it doesn’t always get better. Thanks a lot for reminding me.

    Edit: I apologise. I’m happy for you, OP, truly. These kinds of posts are important for many people but for some they do the opposite of what they’re meant to do and sometimes it gets frustrating.

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    Last October I fucking kid you not, I had a ghost in my home & after approximately the 7th time it messed with me & I definitely caught on to the shenanigans, I firmly respectfully verbally told it to leave. And it apparently obeyed, because the shenanigans ended. I’m so proud of me. And oh, this post is actually about tits?

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      Wow, ghost tamer over here. That’s actually really neat! Con…grats? I think? Respectable either way

      And oh, this post is actually about tits?

      No…but now it is!

      NSFW

      Enjoy my flat af chest 😭

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    Idk, I feel like I’ve just kinda stalled for a year and not really progressed anywhere… Maybe next year…

    Not to just throw negativity on a positive post though! Happy for everyone who has/is progressing! ❤️

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    If I were to sit down with the girl I was last October we would fuck.

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    If the woman I was last October saw the woman I am this October she’d be not at all surprised. I’m out of my most recent chaotic life change, and am old enough stability looks like just slowly pursuing goals over years.

    My wife on the other hand has changed a lot for the better this past year. She’s finally in form of trauma therapy that’s doing serious good for her