• Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    5 days ago

    I doubt it. People already know me. I’m trans (unrelated) and really, extremely unattractive, but everyone already knows that. There are girls here who are literally cis. Not me. I’m immune to the creepy dms.

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      5 days ago

      I dont know you. At least i dont think. Yet im a cis straight dude, unrelated, that thinks your attractive. So like the velma chick i wanna say you do you girl! Sorry if i was an ass, i didnt mean it.

      Edit Saw the rest of yalls response. I hope well for you. Maybe we’ll interact again on here in the future without me being insensitive.

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      5 days ago

      Putting aside the fact that you are attractive, you’re also totally allowed to do whatever the fuck you want without being accused of doing it to get men’s attention.

      • Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        5 days ago

        Thanks Velma ❤️
        To be honest, me and my bf had a fight. I’m trying to break free now and I really need a break from all attention from men. I might not be into them that much after all…

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          Ooof it’s been rough over there for you, I’m sorry to hear it! Take that break, lean into dating yourself (you know your favorite snacks, shows, snuggles, and allllll that, treat your self like the queen you are, babe), and you do you unapologetically.