I had a FWB years ago who would do that up until the day where I wasn’t able to stop the response reflex and punched her right in the tit. Felt kinda bad since it wasn’t exactly consensual, but we did worse than that regularly, so it wasn’t a big deal.
She’d still do it periodically cuz she liked getting punched in the tit, but that was at least negotiated 🤣
Yes, but there are women out there who think because you’re a guy they can hit you as hard as they like. It’s done playfully, but actually it still hurts and isn’t a fun interaction. If you ask them to stop, they’ll usually call you a pussy or a crybaby or some variant.
I’ve had that happen as like a light tap when I said something teasing them. I think it was a test the waters of “is it okay to touch?” kind of thing. There was never any heat behind it. I’d rather they do that if they’re into me than nothing.
Yeah no this is more forceful then that, semi regular slapping on the chest/face, punching, etc.
He’s never mentions anything about it so its been nothing more than me and my wife noticing and talking about it together but it just feels weird seeing it.
I didnt assume that it is, just that the risk is there. Do you assume that there isnt a risk of abusive behaviour if you see someone hit a supposedly loved one?
I’ve seen women hit men as a form of flirting
I had a FWB years ago who would do that up until the day where I wasn’t able to stop the response reflex and punched her right in the tit. Felt kinda bad since it wasn’t exactly consensual, but we did worse than that regularly, so it wasn’t a big deal.
She’d still do it periodically cuz she liked getting punched in the tit, but that was at least negotiated 🤣
I hope most people can tell the difference between a punch which is playful and a punch which is intended to cause serious harm.
Yes, but there are women out there who think because you’re a guy they can hit you as hard as they like. It’s done playfully, but actually it still hurts and isn’t a fun interaction. If you ask them to stop, they’ll usually call you a pussy or a crybaby or some variant.
That isn’t flirting. That’s bullying.
Unless it’s Goku, in which case it’s kinda both?
Me too and when i got fed up and asked her to stop a little louder than the 30 times before, she wasn’t happy at all
I mean, it’d work on me
My brother’s SO does this to him all the time, it feels so gross to me.
I’ve had that happen as like a light tap when I said something teasing them. I think it was a test the waters of “is it okay to touch?” kind of thing. There was never any heat behind it. I’d rather they do that if they’re into me than nothing.
Yeah no this is more forceful then that, semi regular slapping on the chest/face, punching, etc.
He’s never mentions anything about it so its been nothing more than me and my wife noticing and talking about it together but it just feels weird seeing it.
You should tell him that you noticed it and let him know you are a safe person if he needs help exit… if you are that ofc
Or maybe they just like to play rough.
In that case there is no harm voicing your support
Sure, I’m just saying that you shouldn’t assume that it’s an abuse situation.
I didnt assume that it is, just that the risk is there. Do you assume that there isnt a risk of abusive behaviour if you see someone hit a supposedly loved one?
I wouldn’t consider that flirting.