One of the best feelings for both parties
To be honest everyone has emotional triggers like this. For example comparing me with my father makes me very angry.
However I kinda think it is a bit wrong to have someone in a very emotional dependant state, which is also not prior discussed as far as I see, perform sexual acts. For me this is a consent Problem.
My interpretation is that the sexual act was already ongoing when the comment was made.
If they were just, I dunno, hanging out on the couch ans went from that, to the comment, to cumming, that would be a little weird, yeah. But I really don’t think that’s the case.
Whether it makes sense to make emotionally sensitive remarks during such acts, I mean, such acts are inherently emotional. And I would assume one has the good sense to know in which ways they can push/explore a little and in which ways they really should not.
How do you know it wasn’t discussed beforehand? It’s entirely possible finding triggers like this was explicitly one of the goals of their play.
I can see the argument, but exploration is part of the journey. I think in this case, intent does matter quite a bit, and it’s clear to me at least that the OP had good intentions.
🥺 i need to find a pleasure dom…
Honestly, everyone should have the opportunity to play with a competent pleasure Dom at some point.
(artist is Mathias Leth)
This is pretty great
Nice
i need to be both parties in this and i dont think im ok
Maybe you can be okay with someone else ❤️
i hope so
I think it would simultaneously ruin and fix me
Only one way to find out
Are you going to tell me how?
Are you going to say please and address me properly?
Please tell me how?
Sent you a dm actually, hope that’s OK
Miss Takes?
I’m not a Miss, but you’re on the right track
I see, you’re more of a hit.
hm huh mhm yeah huh aha hm yeah mhm I see ah aha mhm yea.
wonderful. absolutely one if the best feelings for both parties. I’m noticing that I mentioned like - most of this on the matrix server thing, besides the… adult bit. very wonderful
EDIT:
okay I thought about this a bit more. I think saying “you are safe with me” wouldn’t actually make me feel safe. it would feel a bit performative and would have to be backed up by actions.
on another note, the second post below it kinda breaks it for me. it distracts from the fantasy to the hard truth of being lonely. it leaves me with less than what I entered with.
