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If countries’ leaders weren’t dumb as shit they would offer public dating apps that don’t try to exploit people.
These apps work great when the goal is to match people who would get along, capitalism enshittified them.
It’s obviously how most people want to meet, why not offer people a dating site that isn’t shit to fix isolation?
I honestly think countries don’t want to fix their birthrates at all, none of them do anything significant to help them.
I feel like if countries’ leaders weren’t dumb as shit, they’d work to fix healthcare, education, and the economy, as that would have a much larger positive impact than a dating app.
yeah, just fix the world guys
> Works
> Goes home
> Masturbates
> Sleeps
> Works
Why am I single?
Don’t forget watch Andrew tate and Joe rogan all night.
“Why are women disgusted by me?”
If you’re suggestion is that lonely people are all dickheads… then you, sir, are a cad
Wtf are you talking about?
You are a Computer Aided Design apparently.
The guy is a fucking bum. Why are so many people here trying to force positivity when the point is realizing he wasted his life. The point isn’t to twist it into some exercise in tolerance to smell your own farts. It’s ok to say “you bum”
Anon wasted their life by age 33 by working a job and not finding someone?
Yes, absolutely. I’m still tired of this acceptance of this type of acceptance because it translates into so many of you crying about being miserable the rest of your life. Well no shit you’re miserable if you accept low skill low wage jobs. There’s a point where this push for seeing positivity and acceptance of all things turns into something that is misleading. Young people see the attitude and adopt it. Next thing they’re 33 and still working these jobs and miserable.
i mean in 10 years you’ve moved up from server to server, maybe focus on that first? you shouldn’t be hanging around in a low level job for any longer than you need to (unless you enjoy it then serve people till your hearts content)
I don’t know if you know this. but no one is promoting people to higher positions. at all. it could take decades to go from server to idk, shift manager? and often, it comes with no pay increase and less opportunities for tips. There is no forward progress labor has faced stagnate wages for decades. Also, the single most accurate metric to find out how you’ll be doing in life, is your parents zip code when you were born. so merit isn’t the thing that gets you moving along in life. in all likelihood the guy with the girlfriend, wife, kid, is making the same money his parents were making.
no one is promoting people to higher positions. at all.
Then your only job outside of serving is to skill up and go find a job elsewhere even if it’s in another category of work
No matter how much you insist we live in a merit based society, we do not. Again. This is still true, the most accurate way to determine your income as an adult is your parents zip code when you’re born. That’s not merit. That stagnation. That’s the reality we live in. Don’t agree with me? Talk to the several successful people who will tell you, they got where they are either because their parents had connections, or they got Lucky and after getting lucky they happened to also be skilled. But the luck is still what got them there. It doesn’t matter how good you are. If you aren’t someone’s friend or cousin, it’s not happening 99% of the time.
Talk to the several successful people
Hello, I earn more than apparently 99% of Lemmy
they got where they are either because their parents had connections
Nope
or they got Lucky
Nope
I made my own luck, by studying damn hard, putting in a shitload of effort and working my way up from dropping out of high school to being in an incredible job.
But thanks for reducing the thousands of hours I put into my job and education to ‘luck’ or ‘has parents’.
I now interview people, if you show up with skills and effort you can make a lot of money very easily but a lot of people don’t even show up with effort.
If you aren’t someone’s friend or cousin, it’s not happening 99% of the time.
You need to step out of the echo chamber or whatever cope cage you’ve built yourself, this is a complete joke and honestly I’m not going to reply to anymore because I can’t tell if you’re trolling or not this is such a stupid opinion.
