• TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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      6 hours ago

      women want to be approached by attractive successful men who other women find desirable. they don’t want to approached by unattractive poor men. being approached by such a man is shameful and makes her feel like shit.

      if you were 6’2, physically fit, had a nice face, and wore a nice suit, and seemed like a popular guy women would be flattered by you hitting on them.

    • Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      9 hours ago

      The goal was achieved. You’re probably socially awkward, and they don’t want to be approached by someone socially awkward. You’re doing exactly what whoever told you your interest is insulting wanted to make you do.