• sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
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    10 days ago

    I mean, nymphomania is a real thing, but its a lot more rare than you might think.

    Its also legitimately debilating.

    ADHD person can’t hold focus or forgets important things, remembers seemingly random things?

    More or less, modify that with uncontrollably becoming immensely lustful, horny, having visions of fucking whoever you are currently talking to or looking at, needing to get off, regardless of whatever your current social or environmental context is.

    Makes all kinds of activities that require sustained attention and focus pretty difficult.

    Anyway, the one I met, who described all this to me… she didn’t whimper pleaaaase.

    She made herself very enticing, in mannerisms, flirtatious attention, teasing and tempting me… after learning the kind of person I was, learning the kind of things that would… make me want it at much as she did.

    So there ya go, there’s an anecdote of how sex works for a diagnosed nymphomaniac.

      • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
        9·
        9 days ago

        … maybe I haven’t fully explained the extent to which this can be detrimental.

        She… she was in tears, at one point, explaining how… this had started happening roughly alongside her going through puberty, and kept getting more severe as she got older… and … she was now at the point where she was considering dropping out of college.

        She’d nearly 4.0’d high school, tons of advanced classes… but she could not focus in college… too much stimulation.

        She was having extreme difficulty with tests, she described to me how she basically completely failed one exam because she couldn’t stop herself from imagining fucking the professor, in an extremely vivid fantasy, that she was able to walk me through in detail, like, a month or two after this happened.

        I said it was legitimately debilating for a reason.

        She went from being basically a borderline genius, to being a borderline genius who can’t think anymore, can’t control her own mind half the time, because her brain keeps randomly, very overwhelmingly, telling her she needs to fuck the nearest person.

        She had to entirely rethink her entire lifeplan.

        … I would imagine that with that level of severe distraction, and basically a kind of emotional dysregulation, lack of sense of control … it probably makes sense that its not very common.