• Cowbee [he/they]@lemmy.ml
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    5 days ago

    It’s not at all contradictory to say that in the context of a settler-colony like the US Empire, indigenous peoples will need to play a leading role among the broader working classes. It isn’t about racial supremacy, but about acknowledging the importance of decolonization.

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      5 days ago

      I think we’re having a communication issue, where I’m trying to explain how you’re coming off, and you’re trying to explain how you’re right. Being correct doesn’t mean that you presented that correctness in a way that honors your truth, and can have the opposite effect of what you want. I don’t even disagree with what your overall point is, but the way you’ve been wording things until this last comment hasn’t been doing your overall point justice.

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          5 days ago

          If you’ve been misunderstood, it’s important to know why you’ve been misunderstood, and that involves listening more, not talking more.

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            5 days ago

            Most people seem to have understood me, and for those who haven’t, I’ve clarified. I am listening, but also responding.

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              4 days ago

              It’s very hard to tell that you’re listening. Maybe that’s something else you can work on, I’d be happy to provide feedback so you can help people feel heard and included.

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                4 days ago

                I don’t really like the condescension in your tone, it leads me to believe your advice wouldn’t be very helpful in making people feel heard.

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                  3 days ago

                  Bro, if we’re talking about convenience tone, you’ve come off like that from the start with people. I don’t think you meant it, but you sounded very “holier and more socially enlightened than thou”, especially when you doubled down on explaining things rather than like, trying to understand what they were saying.

                  • Cowbee [he/they]@lemmy.ml
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                    3 days ago

                    I think it’s fair to say that explaining my views more thoroughly when it’s clear that they’ve been misunderstood is important. Further, the original commenter misunderstood the post, thinking it accelerationist, which I tried to explain why it isn’t. None of that was me being condescending.