• dejected_warp_core@lemmy.world
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    8 hours ago

    To be fair, black-hole-ing a traumatic memory absolutely happens to people. That said, that reaction is absolutely not how to go about resurfacing that kind of thing. If anything it needs to be handled with way more care than self-reported trauma.

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      3 hours ago

      Are you sure? Cause mostly I hear the idea of repressed memories being bullshit.

      See the Satanic Panic where a bunch of people suddenly “remembered” being forced to do Satanic Rituals at daycare

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        2 hours ago

        I have very few memories of my dad being abusive to me, family has told me stories and I remember none of them but I know they happened.

      • Liz@midwest.social
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        It’s a thing. It’s because Traumatic™ memories are stored differently in your brain than normal bad memories. Essentially the part of your brain primarily responsible for digging up memories doesn’t have the connections it world normally use to call up the memory, but the connections within the sensations and experiences of the memory still exist. That’s why a person can “unlock” these memories.

        You have to be super careful trying to dig these things out though, because it is absolutely possible to accidentally lead a person into false memories.