• RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world
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    5 hours ago

    Plenty of women don’t report crimes against them. I think it would be fair to assume that reporting crimes against men in an attempt to sway these numbers probably would’t change much or might even swing them further in women’s favor.

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        3 hours ago

        Sexual assaults on women not reported

        https://womenfamilies.org/why-most-sexual-assaults-are-not-reported/

        Domestic abuse goes unreported by women

        https://www.abc.net.au/news/2021-04-08/reasons-why-victim-survivors-dont-report-domestic-violence/100035002

        Ergo, if we dig into the data and a) women underreport more crimes against them, or b) everyone’s crimes go underreported and the ratio remains the same.

        I’m far more inclined to think more crimes go unreported against women because men tend to be the aggressors far more often.

        And I have to add the caveat that I am NOT trying to detract from crimes against men AT ALL during this discussion.

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          I’m not disputing the idea that violence against women gets underreported. I am saying that there is a lack of data here by definition and it is therefore impossible to guess how much one gender or the other is underreported relative to each other. If you want to quantify things, you need data instead of a feeling. You linking these two articles strikes me as you googling whatever you could find that parrots back a conclusion you already had in your head.

          The fact that you repeat your conclusion despite not having evidence to back it up is a sign that you might be falling victim to confirmation bias. You should maybe spend a little more time examining whether or not your worldview has you jumping to conclusions in the absence of data.

          I don’t know and have no way of knowing which gender underreports abuse more, and the nature of underreporting makes it tough to trust any data on this topic without digging into how it gets collected.

          I would posit that, generally speaking, women are generally less capable of harm that would necessitate calling the cops on your partner. Yes this is a generalization, but i think it holds true that men are generally more durable and physically stronger than women, and a lot of times a woman hitting a man is just not going to meet the threshold of that man thinking “oh, violence is being done to me, let me call the police”. However if the same force she is applying were applied to herself, she may get injured or at least be more likely to perceive that force to warrant calling the authorities.

          I don’t know how I could prove or disprove that assertion. God knows there’s plenty of anecdotal evidence out there but I’m not aware of many credible studies that talk about woman->man violence.

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          Not to sound like a broken record, but the statistics themselves cannot be trusted. So bringing up statistics doesn’t support your argument.

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      5 hours ago

      It’s also known that plenty of men don’t report sexual assaults by women against them because then they would be seen as weak or “lucky” because “You didn’t get raped, she just wanted to. I wish I were you!”

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          Because they don’t report the offences against them for different reasons.

          Women don’t report crimes because no one will believe them, they’re over exaggerating, or it never happened.

          When men don’t report it, it’s because they’re pussies, why didn’t they enjoy it, or belittled by other men because “well you had sex so shut up”.

          I didn’t repeat anything they said. I laid out the difference in which the genders may underreport and why.