• Tiresia@slrpnk.net
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    3 hours ago

    That’s nice. I’m happy for you both.

    Your comment made it sound like you love them thanks to their disabilities, rather than because of who they are which includes their disabilities. That the disability positively affects your rating of them rather than it being an integral part of them when they are always good enough. I’m glad that isn’t the case, though I stand by my reaction being appropriate to what you wrote.

    (edit: fixed misgendering)

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      2 hours ago

      My keyboard psychologist also says that person has some kind of codependency issues… but if they’re truly happy, all’s good and I wish them well.

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      3 hours ago

      Love how you not only assumed the reasons I love my partner but also misgendered them at the same time.

      Maybe you should sit down and think about how you view others before judging them.

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        3 hours ago

        Sorry for the misgendering, I don’t know how I messed that up.

        I thought I was paraphrasing what you said. So if you still have the patience to help me out, could you explain how the things I said were wrong?