QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 days agorulesh.itjust.worksimagemessage-square9fedilinkarrow-up1215file-text
arrow-up1215imagerulesh.itjust.worksQuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 days agomessage-square9fedilinkfile-text
minus-squaresp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·1 day agoYeah, being in the physically most prominent role, and being in the mentally dominant role… not the same thing. You could also be a ‘power bottom’, where you’re receiving, but you’re mentally and physically dominant in the encounter. You could also basically be bullied into being a ‘service bottom’, though I’m not sure that’s a widely used phrase. Also, if you were doing something like cowgirl, as a service bottom… well you’d physically be on top of them. You see this is all very straightforward and not at all confusing.
Yeah, being in the physically most prominent role, and being in the mentally dominant role… not the same thing.
You could also be a ‘power bottom’, where you’re receiving, but you’re mentally and physically dominant in the encounter.
You could also basically be bullied into being a ‘service bottom’, though I’m not sure that’s a widely used phrase.
Also, if you were doing something like cowgirl, as a service bottom… well you’d physically be on top of them.
You see this is all very straightforward and not at all confusing.