Yes! And not just acknowledge hotness, but sometimes more depending on the couple. My husband and I not only acknowledge other people’s hotness - we will fuck them given the opportunity.
Every person is different and every relationship is different.
See, I have compersion (the opposite of jealousy where you’re happy someone else is happy without you), but my wife doesn’t. We’ve worked through polyam with a therapist, so we’re fine, but I would love for her to have a partner that isn’t mine also.
I can see how my comment came off as disparaging people in open relationships. I didn’t intend that. I was just directing it at those who are jealous, presumably because they’re worried about their partner being interested in other people.
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Yes! And not just acknowledge hotness, but sometimes more depending on the couple. My husband and I not only acknowledge other people’s hotness - we will fuck them given the opportunity.
Every person is different and every relationship is different.
Same here. We allow each other to fuck others when given the chance. I can’t wait for her stories
See, I have compersion (the opposite of jealousy where you’re happy someone else is happy without you), but my wife doesn’t. We’ve worked through polyam with a therapist, so we’re fine, but I would love for her to have a partner that isn’t mine also.
I can see how my comment came off as disparaging people in open relationships. I didn’t intend that. I was just directing it at those who are jealous, presumably because they’re worried about their partner being interested in other people.
Oh I wasn’t offended! I was agreeing and adding on with my own experience lol. I’m sorry if I came off too blunt!
I edited it to show that I agreed with you.