• Lemminary@lemmy.world
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    human iteration is, most of the time, horrible for many people

    Not in my experience. I think you need better friends.

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          Yeah, it certainly can be. It is possible to tactfully and gracefully disagree with someone without making them look or feel stupid, and without causing them to lose face. This is something our grandparents used to do for each other.

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              I don’t understand why you need to use your grandparents as an example. In what world is a single comment on the internet the same as an abusive domestic relationship?

              Some of you are replying for the sake of piling on without really contributing anything of value. This is the kind of toxicity of this site that I’m taking about.

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      As people get older they tend to have less and less and less friends.

      Mostly because we keep discarding disappointing people from our lives.

      Which is better than keeping toxic people around. But it’s a shame that most people doesn’t even pass the basic “human decency test”.

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          “My own personal experience is different than what you are describing, therefore you are wrong because my personal experiences are the standard.”

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            You do realize it’s personal experience vs personal experience, right? And that the level of mistreatment they’re describing is exaggerated, right?

            I just think it’s hilarious that the toxic traits of this site are coming out just to prove their point. Maybe they’re right, thanks for confirming.

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            I don’t understand the general cynicism on this site when I see the opposite outside every day, that’s all.

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              There would be two logical explanations.

              1. Your environment is not the same as the environment of other people.
              2. Your expectations about people are different to other people.

              That’s ok, everyone life is different.

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                  People want to feel good and don’t want to feel bad, and this isn’t a moral failing of any kind. I don’t think AI use is because of AI. I think people turn to AI because talking to other people is just so unpleasant. This is the result of human nature, not because of the devil or because of evil, not due to anything else you can condemn someone to Hell for.