I prefer when people wear stuff thats relevant to their interests, it makes it easier to decide who to ignore and who to talk to about similar interests.
True it does help with starting conversations sometimes & being able to spot people with similar tastes when meeting new people. But I personally do not like the idea of having to wear (or do) something purely for the benefit of someone else. It’s an unpleasant peer pressure essentially.
Do you not think that you may be missing out on good company, just because that person doesn’t display their personality to you?
I prefer when people wear stuff thats relevant to their interests, it makes it easier to decide who to ignore and who to talk to about similar interests.
True it does help with starting conversations sometimes & being able to spot people with similar tastes when meeting new people. But I personally do not like the idea of having to wear (or do) something purely for the benefit of someone else. It’s an unpleasant peer pressure essentially.
Do you not think that you may be missing out on good company, just because that person doesn’t display their personality to you?