I can be either, depending on what the sub wants tbh. I just get off on other people getting as much pleasure as they can have.

I love a good soft Dom myself but I can also be a pain slut depending on where I’m at in my cycle, so I understand the appeal of both. Hell I also love a good soft psychological dom that uses degradation to play mind games with me .

All I’m interested in when I dom is seeing somebody whimper and beg for me, by any means.