• captainlezbian@lemmy.worldEnglish
    4·
    2 days ago

    Lol true, every once in a while I (experienced sub of many years) have to explain to an inexperienced Domme that the odds when looking for partners/play partners are really in their favor. The most important thing is getting involved and going to where the subs are, such as here.

      • Duchess@piefed.linenoise.vipEnglish
        8·
        2 days ago

        I’ll pull your hair just right little one. What I whisper in your ear while doing it is going to be a lot different if you’re cis or trans though!

        • Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)@piefed.zipEnglish
          8·
          2 days ago

          🙃🙃🙃❤️

          Cis or trans is real fuckin messy and complicated lol, but cis is probably more accurate. I’m amab and generally masc aligned. Everything beyond that is complicated 😅

          • Duchess@piefed.linenoise.vipEnglish
            8·
            2 days ago

            then you’ll be getting as much force-feminization as you’ll consent to 😈

            If life hands you boys, make girls!

            • Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)@piefed.zipEnglish
              7·
              2 days ago

              Unfortunately forced fem is kind of a hard limit for me 😅 I had a long period of being more femme and am working to intentionally reclaim masculinity, at least for the parts that do connect with me. I’m still on estrogen by choice, have boobs, and sit down to pee out of preference, so what masculinity means to me is obviously a bit different than most masc aligned people. Sometimes I kinda struggle with feeling like I’ll only be received positively and appreciated in femininity.

              But I appreciate the energy and flirting regardless! ☺️❤️

              • Cethin@lemmy.zipEnglish
                1·
                1 day ago

                and sit down to pee out of preference

                As a cis-man who has been cis and masc healthily my entire life, people have the weirdest expectations of masculinity. Lol. I usually sit to pee too, unless I’m using a public restroom with urinals. I don’t think that’s a fem thing.

                In my opinion, the most masculine thing someone can do is not worry about what things are masculine. Do what makes you feel good. Men who are worried about if other men will think they’re manly enough are insecure in their masculinity. As an example, I have long hair, which isn’t typically masculine but a lot of men will stop to tell me to not cut it. If I was worried about doing things that are manly then I wouldn’t have it.

                If you’re a man then you’re a man. Stop worrying so much if other people think you’re manly enough because you’ll never satisfy them all. Be yourself!

              • Duchess@piefed.linenoise.vipEnglish
                8·
                2 days ago

                Valid and heard 🫡 consent is super important

                so what do you like to have whispered into your ear as you’re being lightly abused by a lesbian mommy-domme little one?

                • Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)@piefed.zipEnglish
                  6·
                  2 days ago

                  Uhhh

                  That I’m pleasing. That I’m wanted. And things that make clear they can see through my reflexive masking of social vulnerability, like hiding when I enjoy something 🥹

                  If someone can see that I’m wet, or see how I’m avoiding eye contact, or see that I’m squirming and I’m not able to hide how I’m reflexively reacting to them, them pointing it out and clearly enjoying that they can see through me and find my vulnerability gratifying turns my brain into mush…

      • Cethin@lemmy.zipEnglish
        2·
        1 day ago

        I saw someone say they have “dom-sense” that told them Miisha was a sub, while they were screaming about being a sub. Sure, I guess that doesn’t prove you wrong, but I don’t need x-ray vision to see a skeleton that has no flesh. Lol.

  • Mistakes@sopuli.xyzEnglish
    18·
    3 days ago

    Can confirm. So many good girls who have never had a firm hand with proper validation & guidance and they are soooo cute. 😍

      • Mistakes@sopuli.xyzEnglish
        13·
        3 days ago

        Submissives like to give control to Doms. A good Dom recognizes the psychological aspect to the power exchange

  • Gonzako@lemmy.worldEnglish
    3·
    2 days ago

    Can confirm, the cuties here are amazing. Some great memories of mine started as a DM here.

  • DeadDigger@lemmy.zipEnglish
    3·
    2 days ago

    I mean I could add a few more pussies to my group. On the other hand they are carving for more attention than I am currently able to give so maybe more of a switch person idk