• bremen15@feddit.org
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    der Witz ist doch auch der 21-Jährige, der sich für viel reifer als der 18-Jährige hält. lacht in 55jährig

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      Ich kann mich wage erinnern, das früher jedes Lebensjahr als entscheidender unterschied für jüngere betrachtet wurde.

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    You have to act like the father figure, and best to do it in a way he can’t turn down.

    So pay his fucking college bills, dumbass!

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    Does the 21 year old need a father figure at that age? Is their biological or step-father not around? I don’t see the need for the 21 year old to accept an 18 year old as a father figure since they’re already an adult. Express personal boundaries but let them live their own life.

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      Some people just live the most insane lives.

      My mother used to be a teacher and at one point in her class back in the 80s she had four kids who all had the same father, but different mothers, the largest age difference between the youngest and the oldest was 5 months. He wasn’t even attractive he looked like a drug addict, I don’t know what the women saw in him.

      He wasn’t in the picture for any of them and had to pay alimony for four different kids, to four different mothers. He couldn’t afford this because he was barely employed himself, and so he faked his own death. He managed to get fake passports and everything.

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        I don’t know what the women saw in him.

        I can fix him mixed with the fact that he probably broke the bed when dicking them down.

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    And that, young people, is why you should not post your photo on the internet.

    Be glad that’s not even something sexual.

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    If this is true, holy shit. I once dated a woman 16 years older than I was, I was 26. She had 4 kids ranging from 8, 17, 19, 20. I never attempted to parent the older 3 kids, and they never asked me my age; it was an unspoken agreement. I did parent the 8 year old. The older kids asked for my help a handful of times over the 7 years I was a part of their family, and I happily helped them and stepped up when I could. They were shocked I helped. I was like look, I’m not your parent, I’m not gonna tell you how to live your life, but you are still family and I got your back.

    In retrospect, it was a pretty unhealthy relationship, but I was dumb in many ways in my 20s.

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      I was dumb in many ways in my 20s.

      You’re not really in your 20s if you aren’t doing a certain amount of stupid bullshit

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        Want to get older? Pass a competence test. Want to stay old? Pass a competence test.

        Fail? Straight to the recycler

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      I read “She was 26” and kept trying to figure out that math because I didn’t like the answer I was coming up with. Turns out it’s just my reading comprehension that wasn’t working out.

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      Not dumb at all, it was a core life experience, not much different than many people go through. It’s fairly common with the gender roles reversed.

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      Yeah when I was being the young hot piece of ass for a woman with a kid my age I knew where I stood: proof mom is a cougar

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        Not OC but it’s always retrospective. I am 38 and look back at my 20s and reflect on mistakes. Caring too much about how I was perceived, not caring enough about how I perceived myself. Not being honest with myself. Fortunately years and increased responsibility put into perspective the important versus the unimportant. I focus in things that make me happy, make my family happy. I focus less on doing things just because other people are doing them. I did a lot of stuff I didn’t want to do in my 20s because of where I was at in life.

        And hey, not everyone’s dumb in their 20s. And if you’re in your 20s, there’s no point in reflecting on it. You are where you are, you do what you do, your life will end up wherever it ends up.

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          How’d you get them to activate abilities? I could see a set up where you train them to turn left or right in reaction to something on the screen. Install a mod to make the health bar take up 25% of the screen, and then activate heals based on them turning left, activate damage abilities when they turn right. Train them to turn left if the bar starts dropping, right if it rises.

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      I mean, first you have to know eachother since you were 14, your parents change you schools because her comportment is being problematic but she finds you anyway… Then you can lie about being neither left nor right while pandering to the alt right, and only then you get to be president.

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        Very important step you missed: be scouted out by the financial elite early on, then have them groom you every step of the way.