• starchylemming@lemmy.world
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    13 hours ago

    what if the whole thing of turning insecure and mentally challenged men into the worst they could be was an elaborate ruse form the start ? to reduce the amount of competition

    • mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works
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      Probably not specifically to reduce the competition.

      The sad fact is that insecure and desperate men are easy to manipulate into paying you money in the hopes that it’ll give them a better chance at finding dates. Online dating was unfortunately doomed to be like this from the start.

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      12 hours ago

      It is an elaborate ruse. But not to reduce competition, it’s to just turn young men into angry unstable individuals which can be used for nefarious purposes. We have literal evidence of it happening with Gamergate and there’s some evidence those young men may have just helped get Donald Trump elected in his first term.

      When people are angry and lonely they can be easily coopted for stuff, you just offer them a community and an outlet for their rage and they are yours to do as you want.

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        IME, that was entirely socially accepted in the early 00s. So it’s less “why are they doing it”, and more “why did they keep it up when society at large has moved on”.

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        13 hours ago

        it’s what the worst version of themselves would say

        being homophobe makes you unattractive to most girls

        oh. or they were not part of the competition to begin with